Bryan, thanks for pointing this out. I hadn’t realized it. Thinking out loud for a moment, I think my advice was skewed that way because it was based on my experience. I know what my dates have and haven’t done, so I have practical suggestions. I don’t know what women are like from a guy’s perspective, so I can’t speak to that. All I can provide is my own observations of my internal experience. Things I’m watching out for. Make sense?

Yes, I can see how that would seem unbalanced. Great point. Thank you!

I’m taking an online continuing education course on dating in today’s world from a clinical perspective. The lecturer is a researcher in this area. I’ll listen for her input and be sure to weave that into future articles.

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