Excellent points. My sexual fluidity scared the shit out of me when it first appeared. I didn’t understand what was going on since no one was talking about it. I thought it boxed me into one category — something I wasn’t ready for or want.
Now I know it doesn’t. It really doesn’t mean anything. It’s just more information about my complexity.
Thank you for your vulnerable piece. I wished I could have read it forty years ago. So helpful and normalizing.