Excellent points. My sexual fluidity scared the shit out of me when it first appeared. I didn’t understand what was going on since no one was talking about it. I thought it boxed me into one category — something I wasn’t ready for or want.

Now I know it doesn’t. It really doesn’t mean anything. It’s just more information about my complexity.

Thank you for your vulnerable piece. I wished I could have read it forty years ago. So helpful and normalizing.

Kerry McAvoy, PhD

Psychologist & Author of LOVE YOU MORE. Follow on Tiktok/IG for narcissistic abuse tips & advice. Email: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.com