Here’s the thing. If not addressed our feelings don’t disappear, they go underground, impacting our health and behavior. That includes negatively impinging our relationship with God. Very hard to let God have his way in our lives when we are unconsciously pissed off at him. Weird how we can’t see that.
Yes, all too often we treat God like he’s fragile and touchy, instead of robust and all-powerful. Sad, really.