Me too!! I’ve wondered as well.
What I’ve learned is that its sweet. It wouldn’t work with just any guy. And it may not work for very long with this guy.
I’ve met several men younger than me at this point, and it’s different in a good way.
Men in their late 50s and early 60s are a whole different group, at least in my area of the country. They’ve let themselves go, are so broken and angry, and are kinda a mess. Sad.