Oh, I know!

I wonder if the public has any idea how frequently erectile dysfunction is occurring. I’ve seen it where normal vaginal intercourse is no longer stimulating, even after help with medication. Sex seems to have become a form of a spectator sport where in-person partner acts as a stand-in for the fantasized female instead of it being an intimate experience of discovery.

I worry sex is becoming a strange caricature of itself.

Recently a guy I’d never met complained, after texting a while, that he missed sex rather than he missed me. Really? Ok, I get the message! Done, over, and moving on.

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