Oh Shannon! I’ve been following you for a few weeks and love the Shaunta + Shannon Show. Thank you for writing such a vulnerable piece. You are definitely one of the most beautiful people I know.

After leaving a husband who chose every women but me yet repeatedly told me he loved me more than I can ever imagine, I understand.

Love isn’t enough. It didn’t change him. It didn’t save my marriage. Love doesn’t seem to be the catalyst. It’s something else –


I wish I knew because as a psychologist that would be worth some money, but I’m praying that all of us who struggle with the difficulty of numbing ourselves will find real healing and lasting freedom.

Many blessings to you – Kerry

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Psychologist/Author. Quora & Medium Top Writer. Mom of three, Autistic woman, Relationship expert kerry@kerrymcavoyphd.com

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