Thank you for this raw story.

Like you I loved him and wanted to save us when I found out. It nearly made me crazy with paranoia and fear. He lied and got better at covering it up.

It took nearly two years for me to leave. I learned several valuable lessons in the process. The biggest one is no one is watching out for me the way I am. To stop looking for that in another person. I must love myself more.

I’m glad you are out and hope you are healing now. All the best to you.

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Psychologist/Author. Quora & Medium Top Writer. Mom of three, Autistic woman, Relationship expert kerry@kerrymcavoyphd.com

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