This article is fascinating after being married two very different men; one who didn’t use porn (I lost him to cancer after 31 years of marriage) and one who was a heavy porn user and a serial cheater.

The difference in sexual experiences was night and day. I was sexually saddened and discouraged in the second marriage. There was no sexual intimacy. Despite this man being incredibly experienced after sleeping with hundreds of women, the sex with him was hollow and empty. It was a performance with one participant — only himself. I was merely stage prop.

This is a fascinating article. Thank you for your transparency.

Have you read any of David Schnarch’s, work? He’s a sexologist and psychologist. He offers a fascinating looking at sexual intimacy. You might find his look at great sex interesting.

Thank you!

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Psychologist/Author. Quora & Medium Top Writer. Mom of three, Autistic woman, Relationship expert kerry@kerrymcavoyphd.com

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