This is about disappointment? I'm sorry you are losing me.

Are you "disappointed" with your wallet gets stolen from your back pocket? And if you say you were robbed, are you labeling and excusing?

This behavior is an offensive, abusive, and should be.a crime. Please, please check out Omar Minwalla's work.

https://theinstituteforsexualhealth.com/thirteen-dimensions-of-sex-addiction-induced-trauma-sait-among-partners-and-spouses-impacted-by-sex-addiction/