…o long hikes or walks together, and while I’m not expecting a former Olympian to swipe right on me, I do want a woman who is active enough to do things with me. I’m not sure I ever saw it as an “entitled” idea, but it is enough to make me want to make sure that I write well enough so that that doesn’t come ac…
Yes, it can come off that way if done wrong. Good call.
In fact, I have moderate arthitis in my hips after years of working on a dairy farm as a growing teen. I’m not up for some of that. I used to love it, but now it’s just too much. I’ve added that bit in a carefully worded way on my profile as fair warning.
So, yeah, someone’s energy and fitness level are important areas of compatibility. My ex would sit all day watching TV while eating popcorn. UGH!! Please kill me now. I’m a go-getter who stays busy. I can’t even stand to have a TV on all day long. Then, as an introvert, non-stop talkers wear me out.
LoAll these things are great things to know about ourselves so that we can weed out the mismatches.